High School

High School. Everyone experiences it in a different way than anyone else. I wanted to share my experiences and maybe even some advice on future high schoolers or even current ones. First off, I would like to note that you do NOT need lots and lots of friends to have a great time in high school. For instance, my last year of high school I decided to switch schools to graduate a year early. But I only knew people from my choirs, or at least, those were the only people I had ever decided to hang out with. And it was by far the best year of school ever. Not because I graduated or it was my senior year, but because I met the most amazing friends anyone could ask for. You only need a handful of friends to be happy, if any. And speaking of friends, don't feel like you need to be friends with people that aren't like you. THERE ARE PEOPLE LIKE YOU! And if you are patient enough they will find you. This also holds true to boyfriends and girlfriends. If you do not rush in to any relationship whatsoever, you will find a great friend. Also, get out of your house. Many people I know stayed home way too much in high school. Get out and do something. Maybe even go to the movies or sporting events. Those are the things you remember. Not watching reruns of The Fresh Prince. And another thing, do not be afraid to spend money. But spend it on things like the movies, or going out to eat with friends. Don't buy lots of CD's and movies. Because when life comes to the sudden halt that is death, the only thing people remember is the impact you had on their lives and the moments you shared. Not the great taste in clothes and music. And if you have a crush on someone, tell them, and do not be ashamed once you say it. Because if you do not say it, you will go home that night that much more afraid to tell them the next day. And try not to miss any school. Because one day  of missed math classes means one chapter of not knowing what the heck is going on. Study. Smile at people you do not know in the hallway. Maybe even try a thing called eye contact (it works, trust me.) And don't listen to rumors and don't even think about starting one. If you have a problem with someone, let them know as professional as possible and then go on your way. And don't screw people over. I've done that enough for all of you. And if it so happens that you hut someone really bad. Apologize. Do NOT be like me and just stop talking all together to the people you care the most about. Thats what I did. If i got scared, I would stop talking all together cold turkey. Be nice to everyone. ESPECIALLY if you don't like them. It will help in the long run. Just sit back and enjoy the ride. I hate to use cliches but it is a roller coaster. You WILL feel like you are on top of the world. You WILL feel like giving up at the lowest points. And sometimes your eyes will be closed because you are scared. But just know that this roller coaster won't crash. You will make it in the end. I believe in everything that breathes. Enjoy it while you can. Thank you all. I hope everyone likes this post. Sorry its on the short side.